Our controversial family rules

Each family is different. For us, these rules work for the season we are in right now.

😴 No sleepovers. It goes both ways. No one is allowed to stay over at our place and they will not be sleeping at someone else’s place. Family or not. The risk is too high with them being so young.

💕 It has taken an intentional and consistent effort to cultivate an environment of 100% honesty and transparency. Even when they ask the tough questions, we make sure to give them an age-appropriate truthful answer. We have also practiced having a neutral response when they admit they did something wrong (hit their brother, colored the walls, etc.) so they don’t get scared or fearful to tell us the truth.

👊 We encourage them to listen to their body and not override their internal voice to comply with social norms. They have choices: fist bump, high-five, wave, or use their voice. They still have to acknowledge the person, but it doesn’t always mean a hug.